How To Be A Happy Couple?

When I snapped this picture out of boredom on our way to work on one particular Saturday, it reminds me of a similar picture we took when Kelvin just moved back from Melbourne to Malaysia. And when I found the picture I realised it was 2 years ago! I can’t believe it has been 2 years since Kelvin moved back… TIME FLIES!!! And despite the mini ups and downs, I am glad that we are still getting along pretty well 😛

Here I dig out an article that I wrote 2 years ago, with a title called :

Everyday’s Christmas Day

It’s 1st of March (2010), and I seriously feel like Christmas cos’ he’s with me all these while. We talk to each other face to face and have our breakfast, lunch and dinner together. Just like how it was during Christmas.

His first working weekend!

This is the first working weekend that he has and he finally realizes that there are so many to come. And I wonder if he know that working on Saturday with me will be so much fun 😀 (Well, I guess I can tell from his sour face)

Lexin Charity Dinner

One thing that I feel really happy is that now we can attend all kinds of dinners and gatherings together. We attended a charity dinner on Saturday night and I am so eager to show him around (see, this is my man, I wasn’t pretending to have a boyfriend all these while) and introduce him to possibly everyone that I know. I become a little girl when he’s around. Tsk tsk…

Sweet Sunday afternoon

We had brunch with family and went back to the office. Working on Sunday was not the plan but I have got some urgent matter to attend to and I feel so sorry that I have to bring him with me. I’m glad that he is so comfortable with what I am doing and be so supportive.

When the sun about to set, he drove us home and I just can’t stop teasing him about his new purple sunglasses cos it looks so girlie. Keke…

If it’s Christmas, I’m sure he’ll be my santa.

It certainly feels like yesterday. Now, we are husband and wife for almost a year already… I think both of us changed in certain ways comparing to the dating days. During those days, it was all about fun, romance, happiness and we looked right into each other eyes with adoring hearts; and after getting married it shifted from “YOU & ME” to “US”. We hold hands and look into future together with happiness, ambitions, dreams and love. It may sound weird (funny) to those who hasn’t got married, but it’s true for us 🙂

Gen. 2:18, 21-24

The Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him’…and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and closed up the place with flesh.Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man. The man said, ‘This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken out of man.’ For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.

Time changes, life style changes, our body changes and so do our appearances. I wish I can still write in the same pleasant tone after 5 years, 10 years and 20 years time when I look at our relationship 🙂 And I believe if we follow God’s guideline in being a wife and  husband, He will continue to bless our marriage and shower us with blessings.

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